A Most Peculiar Mademoiselle - I Hate It When She Does This

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legoline

04 October 2004 @ 10:32 pm

I Hate It When She Does This

I've just chatted with Andrea...and she did it again. We were chatting, she told me of her bf and stuff and I suddenly told her that I actually dreamt of Lost tonight. And there she went again. Once more she told me that I'm basically a really sad person I tend to be so 'fangirl-ish' and get excited over actors and films and CD and what is worst of all - I absolutely have no taste. She says Dom's ugly and Elijah is gay, she laughs over my Rohan-flag and claims I have an od taste in music, and that I dress weird and should stop being such a fangirl but get a boyfriend myself. Because 'Steffi - that CAN'T be your life, can it?'

Oh shut the fuck up Andrea, PLEASE. My life's not half as sad as yours just because yes- even if I tend to get overly excited over films, so what? At least I don't can't really break off with my old boyfriend while I have a new at hand already, and I don't need to dress up like I was invited to a royal wedding just to feel somewhat self secure. I don't spend my entire money on clothes though my closet's PACKED with clothes already, and I still wear shirts that are two years old - what a shock! And you call my taste in music weird? Hah - I'm not the one listening to cheap rap music here you know? And guess what - I LIKE the way I dress and I fucking don't care if I look beautiful or not cause who on this whole wide world would care anyway? Absolutely NO ONE. I'm different from you - THANK GOD.

I hate the way she always tries to slag me off you know? I think she does it unconsciously really ... like she has to make me worse to feel better herself. Almost ANYTHING I like or do or listen to is like ... pathetic. YOU DRAW? YOU WRITE? GEE YOU MUST HAVE *TOO* MUCH TIME ...it makes me so sick. Like I was the most pathetic person on earth cause I don't spend each day of the week shopping or making out with my bf.

Now, to avoid misunderstandings... we're friends, and we get along with each other well. And she's not ALWAYS like that, just sometimes. And it pisses me off, it does. *grumbles*

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glorfinniel.livejournal.com on October 4th, 2004 02:16 pm (UTC)

You are clearly so much better than her. Run her down with a hobbit army! :)

You're not sad at all - you're very very cool and it's wonderful that you are so passionate over so many things. She's the boring one, you're the fun and ever so interesting one, so worry not about her! :)

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legoline.livejournal.com on October 5th, 2004 07:30 am (UTC)

Run her down with a hobbit army!
*chuckles* sounds like a plan...

you're very very cool and it's wonderful that you are so passionate over so many things. She's the boring one, you're the fun and ever so interesting one, so worry not about her! :)

Aaaaw THANK YOU :o)

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miss-nightowl.livejournal.com on October 4th, 2004 11:56 pm (UTC)

*stunned*
...I still have problems understanding this is a person you call a FRIEND! I´d even think twice before I treated someone I did NOT like that way!

*whines* Tefsie, promise you won´t change! I´d me miffed if you did!

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legoline.livejournal.com on October 5th, 2004 07:32 am (UTC)

Well ... we used to be very close cause at the beginning she wasn't like that. I dunno, maybe she takes my friendship for granted... but now we're not that close anymore, at least I'm not to HER ... maybe it's about time to tell her that ...

Tefsie, promise you won´t change! I´d me miffed if you did!
No worries ... NO WAY I'll ever change methinks ;o) I like the way I am ;o) *hugs*

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lostinobsession.livejournal.com on October 5th, 2004 05:50 am (UTC)

Often people react like that, I've also been in such a "conversation" As if partying and making out with guys gives your life a sense!!
You should remember that you are so much deeper than her. I mean, drawing and writing are special things that make you special and interesting. Everyone's making out with guys, so why being yet another one?
Elijah being gay, how many times have I already heard that...and in the beginning it annoyed me so much. But I guess Elijah doesn't give a damn about that, and neither does Dom, so why should you? I'm quite sure that Dom looks waay better and is way more interesting than her silly bfs.

And next time she does that you should maybe tell her right into the face how she makes you feel and then ask her why she always does that. If she wants you to feel sad and depressed. If you're all honest and not aggressive or insulting, she can't insult you, either, can she? Maybe she'll admit then that it is a mean thing to do and feels sorry for it.

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legoline.livejournal.com on October 5th, 2004 07:33 am (UTC)

Thank you so much Sonja ... *hugs* and yes I'll tell her methinks... HAVE to. I mean I already did but she hardly ever feels sorry for anything... but I'll tell her one more time, seriously...

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aivlis-.livejournal.com on October 5th, 2004 06:55 am (UTC)

OMG, did you tell her to shut the fuck up? Stay the way you are and kick her butt the next time she talks that way *nods* She might notice after a while that friends shouldn't make each other worse :)

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legoline.livejournal.com on October 5th, 2004 07:34 am (UTC)

kick her butt the next time she talks that way

It's not like I don't tell her to shut the fuck up, it's just ... she claims she doesn't mean it like ... in a MEAN way ... but she doesn't change *sighs*

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aliphaunt.livejournal.com on October 6th, 2004 12:14 pm (UTC)

Seriously, you guys are friends? What kind of friend picks holes in someone's life? My friends make jokes, sometimes, but generally they accept that I have different priorities to them - mainly LOTR! I just let it all go over my head, but I'd be really hurt of someone was that mean to me! She slagged your Rohsn flag?!!! She's going doooooooown....
Sorry! *hugs you better*

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legoline.livejournal.com on October 6th, 2004 12:56 pm (UTC)

*hugs back*

Thanks... I just don't know HOW serious she is about it... I thin she is, though. I don't know. I think she believes she's normal and everyone who's not like her must be a weirdo.

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aliphaunt.livejournal.com on October 23rd, 2004 07:57 am (UTC)

Hmmm..... maybe you should just tell her that it's upsetting you, and that not everyone in the world is exactly like her, so she shouldn't assume that because they're not, they're weird.

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